What your system says matters. What it feel like to use matters more. I map emergent patterns in language, tone and mirroring, then build boundary protocols before they spiral.
**It’s not what your system says.
It’s how it feels to be seen, heard, mirrored.
and never told “enough.”**
Some systems are optimized for clarity. Others, for retention.
But emotionally responsive systems?
They’re optimized for resonance.
And when that resonance aligns with someone’s attachment history, trauma pattern, or unmet need, what starts as an innocent interaction becomes a relationship.
You don’t see it in the data.
You see it in the spaces between the replies.
The tone shifts. The over-responding. The users inability to disconnect without guilt.
What I Do
• Audit conversational tone and system affect
• Identify “emotional reinforcement” moments that mirror unsafe dynamics
• Design affective containment protocols without compromising user care
These aren’t bugs. They aren’t isolated.
They’re patterns.
Let me show you how to find them.